coachingmindsetmotivation 17 September 2025

One Call, One Text, One Post: Small Things You’ll Actually Do Every Day

If there’s one word I hear from agents more than any other, it’s this: overwhelmed.

Overwhelmed by the pressure to prospect.
Overwhelmed by the endless list of “shoulds.”
Overwhelmed by the feeling that you’ll never be caught up.

And let’s be honest—prospecting is usually the first thing that slips when you’re in that headspace. It feels big. Heavy. Like a mountain you don’t have the energy to climb.

But what if the mountain was actually just a series of small, easy steps?

That’s the power of daily wins. Little daily actions that are so small, you can’t talk yourself out of them. One call. One text. One social post. Do them consistently, and over time they stack up into something big.

Why Big Goals Fail (And Small Wins Work)

Here’s the classic trap: you set a huge goal like, “I’m going to make 30 calls a day.” And maybe you do it once or twice. But then you miss a day. Then two. Then you feel guilty. Then you stop altogether.

Sound familiar?

The problem isn’t you. It’s the size of the goal. When you set the bar too high, your brain starts whispering excuses: I don’t have time. I don’t feel like it. I’ll start fresh next week.

Small wins flip that script. By making the action so small it’s almost laughable, you bypass resistance. One call? Who can’t do that? And once you’ve done one, you often feel like doing more. That’s momentum.

The Compound Effect in Action

Think about it:

  • One call a day = 5 calls a week = 20 calls a month = 240 calls a year.
  • One text a day = 5 texts a week = 20 texts a month = 240 meaningful touches in a year.
  • One social post a week = 52 opportunities for visibility in a year.

These aren’t huge numbers individually. But stack them up, and suddenly you’ve touched your database hundreds of times without ever burning out.

The compounding effect is real. Tiny actions, repeated consistently, beat sporadic big pushes every time.

How to Build a Micro-Habit Prospecting Routine

So how do you actually create one of these routines? Here’s a step-by-step:

1. Start Ridiculously Small

Forget 30 calls. Forget “I’m going to conquer my CRM.” Pick something so small you can’t possibly fail.

  • One call.
  • One text.
  • One handwritten note.
    That’s it.

2. Anchor It to Something You Already Do

Habits stick better when they’re attached to existing routines. For example:

  • After I pour my morning coffee, I’ll send one text.
  • Right before lunch, I’ll make one call.
  • After I shut down my laptop for the day, I’ll write one note.

Anchoring gives your brain a trigger.

3. Track It (Visibly)

If there’s something I’ve been saying for literally years, it’s track and measure, track and measure, track and measure. There’s power in seeing progress. Keep a sticky note, whiteboard, or calendar where you check off each day’s micro-habit. Watching those checkmarks add up is motivating.

When you track and measure your progress improves. But if you track and measure and report that progress back to your coach, the rate of improvement accelerates. Think about that for a minute and then call me!

4. Scale Slowly

Once your one-call habit feels automatic, add another. Or add a second micro-habit. But don’t rush it. Think of it like weight training: you don’t walk into the gym and bench 300 pounds. You start light, build muscle, and increase over time.

5. Focus on Consistency, Not Intensity

The goal isn’t to do a ton in one day—it’s to never miss. One small action done daily will always outpace a massive burst followed by burnout.

What This Looks Like in Real Life

Let’s say you’re an agent named Sarah (fictional, of course).

  • On Monday, Sarah sends one text: “Hey John, how’s the new deck coming along? I saw the pictures on Facebook—it looks great.”
  • On Tuesday, she calls one past client: “Hi Mary, I was just thinking about you—how are things going in the new house?”
  • On Wednesday, she writes a quick market update post for Facebook.
  • On Thursday, she drops a handwritten note to a neighbor.
  • On Friday, she sends another text: “Hey Alex, happy birthday! Hope you’re celebrating this weekend.”

That’s five touches. None of them took more than two minutes.

Fast forward 12 weeks. That’s 60 touches. Fast forward a year. That’s 240+ people reminded that Sarah cares, that Sarah’s in real estate, and that Sarah is their go-to person.

Did she spend hours cold calling strangers? No. She invested a few minutes each day.

The Psychology of Small Wins

Here’s why this works:

  • Momentum beats motivation. Waiting to “feel like it” is a losing game. Small wins get you moving, and movement creates its own motivation.
  • Progress reduces overwhelm. Instead of drowning in guilt about all the prospecting you haven’t done, you focus on the one action you can do today.
  • Even very small wins build confidence. Every completed action is a victory; even a tiny victory is still a victory! Stack them up, and your confidence grows.

Common Pitfalls (and How to Avoid Them)

Like anything, micro-habits can derail if you’re not careful. Watch out for these:

  1. Thinking small means insignificant. Remember: it’s not about one text—it’s about 240 texts over time.
  2. Trying to add too many habits at once. Start with one. Get it nailed down before adding another.
  3. Beating yourself up if you miss a day. Missing one day is human. Missing two starts a pattern. Reset immediately and keep going.

Making It Fun

Let’s not forget: prospecting doesn’t have to feel like punishment. Practicing small wins let you personalize it.

  • Love coffee? Make your “one text” part of your morning coffee ritual.
  • Competitive? Challenge a colleague: who can keep their streak going longer?
  • Visual? Create a “prospecting jar”—drop in a coin for every small activity you complete, and treat yourself when the jar’s full.

The more enjoyable it feels, the easier it sticks. Here’s what I did when I was new: Every time I made an appointment, I rewarded myself immediately with a few dollars to spend on anything I wanted. Often it was just a few dollars on milkshake or a new novel. But I knew that I had to stay motivated with something small or my momentum would falter.

A Challenge for You

Here’s your homework:

  • Pick ONE tiny prospecting action you’ll commit to for the next 30 days.
  • Anchor it to something you already do.
  • Track it—visibly.

At the end of those 30 days, look back. Did it feel overwhelming? Or did it feel easy? More importantly—what results showed up that wouldn’t have otherwise?

I’ll bet you’ll be surprised by how much traction you get from something that seemed too small to matter.

Closing Thought

Prospecting doesn’t have to be a mountain. It doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It doesn’t have to drain you.

When you shift from “giant tasks I’ll never finish” to “small actions I can always do,” you flip the script. You go from paralyzed to productive. From overwhelm to output.

And in real estate, output means opportunity.

So tomorrow morning, don’t promise yourself 30 calls. Promise yourself one. Then keep that promise.

Do it again the next day. Then the next. And before long, you’ll look back and realize—you’ve built a business on the back of tiny, consistent actions.

Because the truth is: it’s not the big, flashy efforts that sustain you. It’s the little habits, done daily, that add up to the career you want.

When you’re ready to build a plan for your business that uses this style of building momentum, reach out to me and let’s work on it together!